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Jennifer Covell's avatar

F##^* Mac and the horse he failed to ride in on. You need to write a memoir.

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Andrea Strong's avatar

Amen.

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Elaine Ackerman's avatar

Wow what a dick (sorry). Best way to look at it is, better to find out (very) early on. Glad you enjoyed the wine and chicken, and kind staff at the restaurant.

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Andrea Strong's avatar

Thanks Elaine!

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Beth Fossner's avatar

Mac’s loss. He missed an opportunity for a great evening with a lovely human. Your essay is beautiful and honest.

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Andrea Strong's avatar

Thanks Beth xoxo

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Rachel's avatar

Andrea, this so beautifully written and hits so close to home on the lingering sadness of divorce. Made me cry.

I’m glad you made it a good night. You have a talent for that. Be well.

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Andrea Strong's avatar

Thanks Rachel! xoxo

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Jack Levin's avatar

Andrea, no one who knows you will likely be giving a "Mac" the time of day. It's impossible for me to understand this behavior. Maybe you'll hear from him after he is released by his abductors. If so, he better be able to show you a police report.

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Andrea Strong's avatar

Ha, yes! Thanks Jack.

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Judy's avatar

Consider yourself lucky that you’ve found out early on that he’s not worthy of you.

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